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The art of persuasion

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Andres Lares of the Shapiro Negotiation Institute says there are four steps to get what you want in almost any situation. Credit: author

Persuasion is what Andres Lares does all day. Actually, most of us spend a big part of our day trying to persuade people to see things our way--but Lares and his colleagues do it full time, in an organized way, at the Shapiro Negotiations Institute. So three of them wrote a book called Persuade, that compresses the skill into four steps. Most people base choices on trust and emotions, Lares says--but you still have to present a logical case for what you’re proposing.

“Because over time the process of which we made a decision and the decision itself both impact how we feel about it. So it isn’t just where we got to but also how we got there, and so logic plays a big role in that.” 

Links: Shapiro Negotiations Institute, Persuade, the book.

Sheilah Kast is the host of On The Record, Monday-Friday, 9:30-10:00 am.
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